I fell in love with a fantasy: my first experience with non-monogamy

When I was twenty-five, I met a young man on a promising first Tinder date in Seattle, WA. The only caveat was, he was “committed” to a non-monogamous lifestyle, and in order to date to him, I had to agree to certain….terms. Sounds a little fifty-shades, doesn’t it?

If you’re not familiar with non-monogamy, it is the practice of dating more than…